Dear MM

I saw the post to write you a letter but didn’t heed it until today – the last day of submission. Why? I don’t know. Maybe because I had written you a few times in the past, but they couldn’t convey my heart wishes fully to you. Hmm, I read the two letters posted yesterday, and I was like, what?!!! People have the boldness to write things like this on Social media; all that should be bottled in their hearts. So I decided to give it a try😉😉.

I’d start by explaining what ‘MM’ means. It means My Melech. Melech means King in Aramaic🥰. You are a king and my own King (why I added the ‘My’). I’m writing this and blushing, picturing your wide grin as you’d be reading this😅. So from the moment we meet till we die, get ready to answer the name, but I’m guessing you’d love it. And by then, I’d also have other ones for you, obviously not the usual ‘darling’, ‘sweet’, ‘babe’. They are beautiful but old-fashioned. I love names too, so even if you don’t have any for me at the moment, you have a lot of time to come up with one. I don’t know what country and race you’d come from, but I pray you’d be Nigerian. Although, I want to have mixed kids too🤣🤣.

I really don’t know how to begin. Lemme go and recheck the requirements. Okay, I’m back😁. I strongly desire a home that flows with God’s presence. Everything makes perfect sense in it. Love, discipline, joy, peace, patience, kindness, temperance won’t be lost when He is with us. I want to live in that joyful harmony with you and the kids.

I see us praying together and praying for each other. I see us studying the Bible together, with me sitting on you (I can be a baby like that😂). We will be soft and playful as well as powerful and fire-full. That’s the way we’d build our home. I perceive you might be called into a ministry of some sort. And though I never really liked the idea, God is doing a great job unpacking the gems He has stored in me. So, our home will be open to people like that of my mentors. We will raise kings and queens from it, plants grown up in their youth, and who will rule in this present age. Our home will be a terror to the devil and his kingdom. Kingdom armies (in academia, politics, businesses, the tech world, churches, all spheres) would be birthed and trained in our home. We will be our kid’s parents as well as friends. We will show them the love of Christ. They will have no reason to doubt the love of Christ or our love for them. Oh God! we have work to do, and it’s getting me all excited cos I see it already. They will happen!

I don’t want to go preaching on you😅, cos I also see you chasing me around the house. The massages, love pats, the kisses (never done this, but I guess if people talk about it, It must be nice; be ready), the love bites, the late-night dates, the movie nights, we will do all of them oo. I love when people cook for me🥰 You know, people don’t usually cook for chefs because they assume they prefer doing it on their own. Nonsense😏. You will cook for me, and we will cook together (in fact, I see you holding my hand from behind slicing onions🥰; I hear my giggles in response to your teasings). I have soo many ideas but lemme stop before all these ofofo eyes think I’m too carnal.

Marriage is making up your mind to love someone more than you love yourself, so I’d be telling you how much help I’d be to you. Gosh, I can’t hold it in any longer: I love you so so much. I’m sorry, I just had to say it😂.

Now, back to me being a help. I’d be your shield at home while you war and lead in the gates. No, I am your shield (it is happening and has happened). I am your strength in the time of weakness; together, we’ll draw strength from God. I’ll be your most outstanding advisor. God will grant me the wisdom. Instead of a Jezebel, I’d be an Esther but with full legal access to your courts, head, and heart😌. I’d be your greatest intercessor (well, after Jesus😂). You will never be cold spiritually, emotionally, and physically while I’m still alive (so help me, God.) I had to put chirp that in because I’d also be a powerful woman. But we aren’t talking about me, so let’s continue. I am your resource person, confidant, and friend; all your secrets will be safe with me. Your heart will find rest in me. All the late-night gist? You’d hear all of them and tell me yours too. I can be talkative and mute depending on intervals, but you’d have the wisdom to maneuver me😅. I pray that you will be vulnerable with me. Vulnerability builds intimacy. I pray we’ll be so intimate that two eventually become one, not one and a half or one and a quarter. I’ll be your homemaker, that you’d always want to run home when you are out.

I pray you’d be a leader in all ramifications. You will stand straight in the office God has called you into. God will grant you the grace to be strong. You are receiving grace to be a Godly husband and father (good is not enough). You will be a kingdom financier (we will be rich and train people in that light also); the grace and wisdom to make wealth is given to you! Your light will shine before men. You will stand and reprove kings. You are going deeper in the knowledge and love of God. You are learning and growing in the understanding of who a woman is and how to treat me. You are endowed with wisdom, 20 times wiser than your peers. God, how proud will I be traveling with you, seeing you speak and listening to those rich words of honey dripping from your lips? I’d be screaming, “that’s my man. That’s my husband😍🤩”. I’ll go with you and be back with you. It won’t be like our fathers’ times when the men traveled and left the women at home to raise kids. Nah. Nah. Nah. I pray you will also travel with me in my speaking engagements (that’s another place to give you a shout-out. You gerrit?😂). Priscilla Shirer travels with her family to wherever she is ministering, and that also serves as a vacation time for the family; I’d love something like that for us. Or, maybe, the underlying truth is that I don’t want to be apart from you; leave me like that joor, I didn’t wait all this time to be away still 😅😂.

I want you to pray for me that I’d be like the Prov 31 woman: virtuous in all things, that my speech is laced with grace. Pray that I’ll know the real meaning of being a wife and a mother and that I’d receive the grace to walk in it. Pray for me that I’ll be a mother in Israel. Pray that instead of our mothers, I’ll be a woman who uses her mouth to bless instead of cursing, especially when the kids misbehave. Pray that right now, I’d be growing intensively and building🙏. I’m called for a great purpose, and I think I have a particular key to what God is about to release on earth. God🥺. Pray that I neither misuse it nor bury it, pray for me😭. Pray that with all I’m endowed with, I stay humble and submit to you. Pray that I learn financial independence and become financially free. Pray that I walk in the grace to execute all that God has said. Pray that my academics and career will be another beacon of God’s light. Pray for our kids; pray that all of them will take on active service in His kingdom from their little ages (whether or not they will serve has been settled), pray that they will walk under God’s glory.

I still have many things to write to you, so expect another letter. My heart is so full of you, even though I have never met you before. I might not have seen you with my physical eyes, but may I recognize you when we meet (I’d say, ‘yes, that’s the man I’ve been praying for’.

Baba God, is it not time yet?🥲

Side note: If you are in any relationship/situationship/entanglement. God will break all of them. I’m sorry if you are heartbroken (God will heal you😃), but it is for your good. Wait and see this pearl waiting for you.

I wonder if I should send out this letter or leave it for just your eyes😇. But, I think I’ll send it out under the anonymous option; people must not find out who I am😅.

Love, Wifey.